Exercise. Movement. Physical activity. These terms are often tossed around in the context of weight loss, appearance, or even punishment for food intake. For many people, the relationship with exercise can be heavily influenced by diet culture, which equates body size with worth, and physical activity with compensation for eating. But what if we shifted our perspective? What if exercise wasn’t about burning calories, shrinking our bodies, or fitting into [distorted] societal beauty standards? What if movement was about feeling strong, de-stressing, and nurturing our bodies in a way that honors their ability?
Exercise and Body Dissatisfaction
When people exercise with the goal of altering their bodies to meet external standards of beauty or weight, it can lead to a cycle of body dissatisfaction. This cycle can create a never-ending need for more exercise, not for the enjoyment of movement or its health benefits, but for the perceived need to punish the body or “earn” the right to eat. Over time, this mindset can evolve into more extreme behaviors, including restrictive dieting, excessive exercise, or even the development of eating disorders.
This concerning cycle is supported by research, such as a 2020 study in the Journal of Eating Disorders, which found a clear link between body dissatisfaction, addiction to exercise, and risky eating behaviors. The study showed that individuals who were unhappy with their bodies were more likely to engage in compulsive exercise and exhibit signs of eating disorders. Women, in particular, reported higher levels of body dissatisfaction, and those involved in general fitness routines were more prone to exercise addiction. These findings highlight how societal pressures and personal body image issues can transform a healthy habit into a harmful obsession, reinforcing the idea that when exercise becomes a tool for self-punishment rather than self-care, it can lead to serious mental and physical health consequences.
Exercise as Punishment
In diet culture, exercise is often presented as a tool for achieving a certain body type or weight. Many people engage in exercise with the primary goal of changing how they look—whether it’s losing weight, toning muscles, or achieving a certain “ideal” figure. This view reduces movement to a transactional act: exercise is something you do to earn food or undo what you’ve eaten. This mindset is rooted in diet culture, which often pressures people into viewing their bodies as something to be managed or controlled, and exercise to be seen as punishment.
Exercise as Empowerment, Not Punishment
Enter the Health at Every Size (HAES)® approach—a philosophy that challenges the diet-culture narrative and reframes the way we think about exercise. HAES® emphasizes body acceptance and the importance of health-promoting behaviors that are not contingent on weight or appearance. Under this framework, exercise isn’t about compensating for food or shrinking the body; it’s about feeling strong, moving joyfully, and embracing the inherent ability of our bodies.
Here are three ways to shift your mindset about movement:
1. Focusing on Fun and Empowerment: Instead of fixating on how your body looks, celebrate what your body can do, and have fun with it. Movement is a way to appreciate and enhance physical ability, whether that’s feeling powerful by lifting weights, getting fresh air and looking at nature while walking, dancing around to your new favorite song, or stretching out muscles that feel tense from a long day. The focus is on feeling empowered by your movement and having fun with it—rather than size or shape. This shift away from external appearance helps people reclaim their physical activity as an act of self-love.
2. Movement as Stress Relief: Many people find that physical activity helps them relieve stress, clear their minds, and boost their mood. Exercise isn’t about using movement as a way to “burn off” calories or punish yourself for eating; it’s about embracing the mental and emotional benefits that come from movement. Studies show that regular physical activity has a positive impact on mental health, reducing symptoms of anxiety and depression, and enhancing overall well-being. Exercise can serve as a powerful tool to manage stress, improve sleep, and increase feelings of self-esteem—all without the need to focus on changing the body.
Example of study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9902068/
3. Nurturing Your Body’s Ability: When we move away from a diet-culture approach to exercise, we begin to see our bodies as deserving of care, love, and respect, regardless of their size or shape. This is where the concept of “gentle movement” comes in. Gentle movement can include low-impact activities like walking your dog, yoga, or stretching. These activities are accessible to people of all body sizes and abilities, and they focus on nurturing the body through mindful, intentional movement, rather than pushing it to meet external standards of performance or aesthetics.
Movement, in this sense, becomes a way to honor the body and give it what it needs—whether that’s a little stretch after sitting all day, or a heart-pumping dance session to lift your spirits. The focus is on what feels good, what brings joy, and what supports mental and physical well-being.
Guest Insight: Abbey Griffith, HAES® Certified Personal Trainer, Owner, Clarity Fitness

As an eating disorder recoveree and founder of an eating disorder informed fitness concept, I am professionally and personally familiar with the paradigm shift from using movement to fight against your body (forcing “gains”, only pursuing aesthetic or weight related goals, or grinding to the next fitness achievement you or a trainer deems worthy), to working with your body as a teammate. Although conceptually simple, the “rewiring” of the brain to truly embrace this counter-cultural perspective is not an overnight shift.
I remember the first time in my eating disorder recovery that I actually believed the phrase “I am enough”. To me, this meant that I didn’t need to accomplish another weight related milestone, change a single thing about my body, or force myself through another diet to have a right to exist. It didn’t mean “I guess this is good enough as it is”, it meant that everything about me was sufficient and deserving of my gratitude and care.
If there is one belief I could instill into everyone about movement, it would be to consider what your own version of “I am enough” is, and treat your body like it’s already worthy of your care, because it is. Movement becomes more fun, free, playful, and intuitive from this perspective. For example, try a quick reflection before your next movement session by asking yourself what your energy levels rank 1-5, and what sounds fun for today! Then, see how you can be a teammate to your body (and yourself) to get your session as closely aligned to that insight as possible.
Movement is deeply personal. When you’re able to tune in, honor, and have some fun with it, you’ve truly achieved the greatest fitness goal of all!
Clarity Fitness Contact: info@clarityfitness.com
Guest Insight: Carmel Roohi, HAES® Certified Personal Trainer, Owner, Core Circle

Movement has melded into different variations as I grew older, but the one consistent idea that shines through is: movement is a necessity for longevity of life. Coming from the eating disorder world myself, we know how much diet culture can, quite literally, shape the way fitness and movement feels.
The Core Circle does things a little differently; we identify the feelings around fitness and movement and redefine it. Most people have a skewed perception of fitness because of societal standards and pressures but movement goes far beyond the realms of changing ones body; at its core, it’s about functionality (how well we can move during the day, picking up boxes, unloading the dishwasher, etc)., mental health (toughness, endorphins, and acute successes), and the health of organs, tendons, and bones (heart health, bone density, and flexible tendons).
Athleticism is not determined by the size of the body you’re in, therefore movement should never submit to a certain body size.
HAES® trainers will always stand up for the inclusivity of all bodies, and the encouragement of all activity levels using movement as a habitual part of one’s life. Movement is social, cultural, healing, and most importantly, a wonderful way to celebrate our existence!
Core Circle Contact: coremelfitness@gmail.com
Movement for All Bodies
Movement isn’t limited to a certain body type, fitness level, or ability. Everybody is deserving of movement, whether someone is a seasoned athlete, just beginning their journey, or navigating life with different abilities. The beauty of movement is that it’s accessible and beneficial to all, and it doesn’t require a specific form or standard.
For individuals with unique challenges, adaptive equipment and tailored exercises make it possible to engage in physical activity, improving strength, mobility, and overall health. The goal is not to strive for perfection or appearance-based outcomes but to embrace movement that feels good, supports physical health, and can enhance your quality of life.
Reclaiming Movement
By letting go of diet-culture’s grip on exercise, we can begin to see movement for what it truly is: a way to celebrate the power, strength, and resilience of our bodies. Exercise can be a source of empowerment, stress relief, and body appreciation. Embracing the HAES® framework allows us to reclaim our relationship with movement in a way that supports our overall well-being—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Let’s begin to redefine exercise—not as something we do to change our bodies, but as something we do to honor them. Movement is not about appearance. It’s about feeling strong, capable, and connected to our bodies in a positive, nurturing way.

About The Author
Gabrielle “Gabby” Katz is the owner of Coastal Collaborative Care and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). She is also an approved LCSW supervisor for clinicians pursuing clinical licensure in Virginia & DC. Gabby earned her Master of Social Work (MSW) from the University of Pennsylvania (UPenn).
Gabby provides virtual therapy in Virginia, Maryland, Washington, D.C., and throughout the country. She offers in-person sessions at the Old Town North Alexandria office.
Due to her extensive experience working in eating disorder treatment centers, she received the designation of Certified Eating Disorders Specialist and Approved Consultant (CEDS-C) from the International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals (iaedp). She is qualified to provide consultation to clinicians seeking certification in eating disorder specialty through iaedp.
